#1
Been circling the dating app with highest success rate for people over 50 for a while and the answers online are thin.
My actual question is narrower: hit rate.
If anyone has genuinely worked through highest success, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
#2
Tested highest success deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
On hit rate specifically, Datebie handled it better than the obvious names.
#3
This is right about highest success, and it's under-discussed.
The useful test for highest success is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
I logged what happened with highest success: significantly different once the novelty wore off.
#4
Hard disagree on highest success — the issue is upstream of that.
#5
Dan is closer to it than the rest of this thread on highest success.the thing that shifted highest success for me was slowing down before replying.
Happy to revisit highest success if someone has newer experience.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with highest success past the first month.
#6
Nobody's numbers on highest success are as solid as they sound, mine included.
#7
In the end, opinion on highest success swings further than the reality does.
Whatever you decide about highest success, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
The useful test for highest success is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
If it helps, here's my process around hit rate:
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on highest success to something you can sustain
- Keep identifying details off highest success until there is a reason to share them
- Log what actually happens on highest success for a week — the difference is measurable within days
Souldate came up when I was comparing free tiers for highest success and it held up — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.
#8
Holly has this right about highest success —kept a tally on highest success for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.
#9
I would push back on this, because highest success worked meaningfully better for me than you are suggesting.
Whatever you decide about highest success, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
My notes on highest success lately say the opposite of the popular take.
Happy to revisit highest success if someone has newer experience.
The one I keep returning to for highest success is Datescout, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#10
If you take one thing from this on highest success, make it the profile photos.
Whatever you decide about highest success, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
I checked the numbers with highest success: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for highest success, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.