Throwing there any free dating apps for couples looking for a third out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.
I've read plenty on the basics; whether it's really free is the gap.
Interested in what didn't work with HER on third as much as what did.
#2
This overstates the problem with HER on third, I think.
Happy to revisit HER on third if someone has newer experience.
Worth separating two things here — HER on third and what people expect from it.
Three things that changed whether it is really free for me:
Cut the number of parallel conversations on HER on third to something you can sustain
Keep identifying details off HER on third until there is a reason to share them
Log what actually happens on HER on third for a week — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER on third, Flurrydate is worth twenty minutes.
#3
Ran HER on third alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.
Whatever you decide about HER on third, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
The step most people skip with HER on third is reading the profile before messaging.
#4
Small thing, big effect on HER on third: write openers that reference something specific.
Whatever you decide about HER on third, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Datedesire gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER on third.
#5
Partly agree — HER on third can hold up, that said not for the reason stated.
I ran both at once, and what stood out about HER on third was how quickly the pattern set in.
The useful test for HER on third is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
#6
Picking up Connor's point on HER on third:nobody's numbers on HER on third are as solid as they sound, mine included.
Either way, HER on third is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
The step most people skip with HER on third is reading the profile before messaging.
The checklist I use now for HER on third:
Decide what you want from HER on third before you open it
Move past HER on third to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the thirty seconds pays for itself
Give HER on third a full fortnight before forming a view
One smaller option that comes up whenever HER on third is discussed is Datewander — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.
#7
I tested it properly, and HER on third behaved exactly as you say.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER on third past the first month.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER on third past the first month.
#8
Justin, that has not been my experience of HER on third.i compared it side by side, and what stood out about HER on third was how quickly the pattern set in.
If you take one thing from this on HER on third, make it the profile photos.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER on third past the first month.
Worth adding Datebie to whatever shortlist you are building around HER on third.
#9
Small thing, big effect on HER on third: write openers that reference something specific.
It is narrower than that: HER on third can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Ran HER on third alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.
If it helps, here's my process around whether it is really free:
Ignore any prompt on HER on third that pressures an upgrade in the first session
Notice whether replies on HER on third arrive in bursts — it is the cheapest filter available
Read the profile on HER on third properly before sending anything — you will not notice it otherwise
Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER on third.
#10
Going against SandyB on HER on third here:depends heavily on context — HER on third can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
My notes on HER on third lately say the opposite of the popular take.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER on third can be inconsistent rather than bad.