Everything written about there a free transgender dating app that is reads like it was written by someone who never used it.
What I keep bumping into is the subscription trap — that's the part nobody covers.
If anyone has genuinely worked through HER, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.
It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
I have seen Flamedate raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.
Someone raised Datewander in a thread about HER and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
Lauren is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.one adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
I logged what happened with HER: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Datescout is worth twenty minutes.
Picking up Lauren's point on HER:not my experience at all — HER felt fine once I changed how I used it.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
Whatever you decide about HER, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Luvdate is worth twenty minutes.
This is right about HER, and it's under-discussed.
Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.
Someone raised Souldate in a thread about HER and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
What helped with HER was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
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