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Is there a pegging dating app specifically for people with that niche interest?

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#1

Question about there a pegging dating app specifically for people with that niche interest that I can't resolve on my own.

The thing I can't get clarity on is how it works day to day.

Interested in what didn't work with HER as much as what did.

#2

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.

Datedesire came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#3

Kept a tally on HER over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Someone raised Datewander in a thread about HER and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#4

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

The step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.

#5

Picking up Paul's point on HER:hard disagree on HER — the issue is upstream of that.

Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.

#6

Picking up Paul's point on HER:i tried it myself, and HER behaved exactly as you say.

My notes on HER this year say the opposite of the popular take.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

The checklist I use now for HER:

  • Judge HER on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare HER against one alternative at the same time — the difference is measurable within days
  • Treat your first week with HER as reconnaissance rather than outreach

Someone raised Souldate in a thread about HER and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

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