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Are there specific dating apps for people who work night shifts?

Started by Jake_NYC 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Looking for real experience with there specific dating apps for people who work night shifts rather than another listicle.

My actual question is narrower: whether it produces real dates.

If your experience with specific dating apps contradicts mine, say so.

#2

I tested it properly, and what stood out about specific dating apps was how quickly the pattern set in.

If you take one thing from this on specific dating apps, make it the profile photos.

The thing that shifted specific dating apps for me was slowing down before replying.

What I ended up doing about whether it produces real dates:

  • Decide what you want from specific dating apps before you open it
  • Move past specific dating apps to a call earlier than feels comfortable — that is where most of the wasted time goes
  • Give specific dating apps a full fortnight before forming a view

I would check Datewander next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on specific dating apps.

#3

This overstates the problem with specific dating apps, I think.

Either way, specific dating apps is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Small thing, big effect on specific dating apps: write openers that reference something specific.

#4

Both can be true: specific dating apps can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Treat specific dating apps as a starting point rather than an answer.

Depends heavily on context — specific dating apps can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Datebie came up when I was comparing free tiers for specific dating apps and it held up — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#5

One adjustment worth making with specific dating apps: treat the first week as observation only.

Happy to revisit specific dating apps if someone has newer experience.

Small thing, big effect on specific dating apps: write openers that reference something specific.

If you take one thing from this on specific dating apps, make it the profile photos.

What I ended up doing about whether it produces real dates:

  • Treat your first week with specific dating apps as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume specific dating apps is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your specific dating apps profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
#6

This is right about specific dating apps, and it's under-discussed.

Either way, specific dating apps is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

I rotated through a few while working on specific dating apps and Datedesire had the least friction on the free tier.

#7

Careful with the consensus forming here about specific dating apps.

I gave it a fair run, and what stood out about specific dating apps was how quickly the pattern set in.

Happy to revisit specific dating apps if someone has newer experience.

The checklist I use now for specific dating apps:

  • Log what actually happens on specific dating apps for a week — otherwise you are guessing
  • Check when accounts on specific dating apps were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on specific dating apps — the difference is measurable within days
#8

I tried it myself with specific dating apps: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with specific dating apps past the first month.

One smaller option that comes up whenever specific dating apps is discussed is Ezhookups — it took about ten minutes to form a view.

#9

Both can be true: specific dating apps can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Depends heavily on context — specific dating apps can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Whatever you decide about specific dating apps, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

If it helps, here's my process around whether it produces real dates:

  • Treat reviews of specific dating apps with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on specific dating apps that looks too polished — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Judge specific dating apps on conversations, not on match counts

If the big platforms are all paywalled for specific dating apps, Flamedate is a lighter alternative.

#10

Matt, that has not been my experience of specific dating apps.results on specific dating apps improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

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