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What are the top 5 free dating apps currently available?

Started by RhondaK 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Been circling the top 5 free dating apps currently available for a while and the answers online are thin.

Where it falls apart for me is the subscription trap.

Interested in what didn't work with the top 5 as much as what did.

#2

Kept a tally on the top 5 in the last stretch and the numbers were not what I expected.

The useful test for the top 5 is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Kept a tally on the top 5 since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

One adjustment worth making with the top 5: treat the first week as observation only.

Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for the top 5.

#3

Nothing surprising here — the top 5 can play out that way.

Treat the top 5 as a starting point rather than an answer.

#4

Respectfully, that's not what the top 5 looks like from where I sit.

My notes on the top 5 lately say the opposite of the popular take.

Happy to revisit the top 5 if someone has newer experience.

Happy to revisit the top 5 if someone has newer experience.

If it helps, here's my process around the subscription trap:

  • Ignore any prompt on the top 5 that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on the top 5 arrive in bursts — the alternative is a month of nothing
  • Read the profile on the top 5 properly before sending anything — otherwise you are guessing

If the big platforms are all paywalled for the top 5, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.

#5

What helped with the top 5 was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Either way, the top 5 is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Partly agree — the top 5 can hold up, though not for the reason stated.

Datelink is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for the top 5.

#6

The loudest opinions on the top 5 usually come from the shortest usage.

What helped with the top 5 was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

The step most people skip with the top 5 is reading the profile before messaging.

Short version of what worked for the top 5:

  • Check when accounts on the top 5 were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on the top 5 — guessing costs more than checking
  • Decide what you want from the top 5 before you open it

Someone raised Turndate in a thread about the top 5 and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#7

On balance, opinion on the top 5 swings further than the reality does.

#8

I watched a friend go through it with the top 5: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

#9

Diana is closer to it than the rest of this thread on the top 5.i had the opposite result with the top 5, and I gave it a fair run.

Depends heavily on context — the top 5 can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Worth separating two things here — the top 5 and what people expect from it.

#10

Jesse is closer to it than the rest of this thread on the top 5.results on the top 5 improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

I compared it side by side, and what stood out about the top 5 was how quickly the pattern set in.

Someone raised Datedesire in a thread about the top 5 and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

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