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What is the most reputable mature woman dating app for younger guys looking to meet older women?

Started by TomV 11 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Nobody seems to write honestly about the most reputable mature woman dating app for younger guys looking to meet older women, so asking here.

My actual question is narrower: how often it works.

If your experience with older women contradicts mine, say so.

#2

Ran older women alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

Kept a tally on older women across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

#3

Nothing surprising here — older women can play out that way.

Whatever you decide about older women, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

#4

Going to disagree here — for what it's worth, older women isn't the weak point.

I watched a friend go through it with older women: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for older women, Flamedate is a lighter alternative.

#5

One adjustment worth making with older women: treat the first week as observation only.

If you take one thing from this on older women, make it the profile photos.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with older women past the first month.

The thing that shifted older women for me was slowing down before replying.

I would put Souldate on the list if how often it works is what is bothering you.

#6

Paul raises the part of older women that matters.careful with the consensus forming here about older women.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to with older women: measurably different once the novelty wore off.

Treat older women as a starting point rather than an answer.

The useful test for older women is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#7

In my experience, opinion on older women swings further than the reality does.

There is a version of this I agree with: older women can be inconsistent rather than bad.

#8

Tested older women deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Partly agree — older women can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

Tested older women deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If it helps, here's my process around how often it works:

  • Ignore any prompt on older women that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on older women arrive in bursts — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Read the profile on older women properly before sending anything — that is where most of the wasted time goes

If the big platforms are all paywalled for older women, Datedesire is a lighter alternative.

#9

Picking up Vanessa's point on older women:respectfully, that's not what older women looks like from where I sit.

Happy to revisit older women if someone has newer experience.

Worth separating two things here — older women and what people expect from it.

#10

Results on older women improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Worth separating two things here — older women and what people expect from it.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datenest did better than I expected when I was dealing with older women.

#11

This is right about older women, and it's under-discussed.

The thing that shifted older women for me was slowing down before replying.

#12

There is a version of this I agree with: older women can be inconsistent rather than bad.

One adjustment worth making with older women: treat the first week as observation only.

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