#1
Genuine question on the newest dating apps that launched this year — the marketing copy tells you nothing.
What I want to understand is how it plays out rather than the feature list.
Concrete examples around the newest dating welcome, vague reassurance less so.
#2
My notes on the newest dating over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
The step most people skip with the newest dating is reading the profile before messaging.
Worth adding Datedesire to whatever shortlist you are building around the newest dating.
#3
I compared it side by side, and the newest dating behaved exactly as you say.
Treat the newest dating as a starting point rather than an answer.
I would check Souldate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on the newest dating.
#4
I had the opposite result with the newest dating, and I gave it a fair run.
Depends heavily on context — the newest dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
#5
The thing that shifted the newest dating for me was slowing down before replying.
Kept a tally on the newest dating recently and the numbers were not what I expected.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the newest dating past the first month.
Happy to revisit the newest dating if someone has newer experience.
If it helps, here's my process around how it plays out:
- Compare the newest dating against one alternative at the same time — it is the cheapest filter available
- Treat your first week with the newest dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
- Assume the newest dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
If the big platforms are all paywalled for the newest dating, Datewander is a lighter alternative.
#6
I read Tony's reply on the newest dating differently.careful with the consensus forming here about the newest dating.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of the newest dating.
#7
In my experience, opinion on the newest dating swings further than the reality does.
Happy to revisit the newest dating if someone has newer experience.
Happy to revisit the newest dating if someone has newer experience.
The checklist I use now for the newest dating:
- Decide what you want from the newest dating before you open it
- Move past the newest dating to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the thirty seconds pays for itself
- Give the newest dating a full fortnight before forming a view
If you want something outside the big five for the newest dating, Flurrydate keeps appearing in these comparisons.