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Is a meeting dating app better than a swiping app for finding a serious connection?

Started by PaulD 7 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Genuine question on a meeting dating app — the marketing copy tells you nothing.

My actual question is narrower: actual outcomes.

Concrete examples around meeting dating app welcome, vague reassurance less so.

#2

There is a version of this I agree with: meeting dating app can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Depends heavily on context — meeting dating app can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Worth separating two things here — meeting dating app and what people expect from it.

#3

Picking up Jesse's point on meeting dating app:my notes on meeting dating app over time say the opposite of the popular take.

Treat meeting dating app as a starting point rather than an answer.

There is a version of this I agree with: meeting dating app can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The step most people skip with meeting dating app is reading the profile before messaging.

#4

Small thing, big effect on meeting dating app: write openers that reference something specific.

Happy to revisit meeting dating app if someone has newer experience.

What I ended up doing about actual outcomes:

  • Decide what you want from meeting dating app before you open it
  • Move past meeting dating app to a call earlier than feels comfortable — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
  • Give meeting dating app a full fortnight before forming a view

Worth adding Datebie to whatever shortlist you are building around meeting dating app.

#5

Hard disagree on meeting dating app — the issue is upstream of that.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of meeting dating app.

Treat meeting dating app as a starting point rather than an answer.

#6

Your read on meeting dating app lines up with mine over time.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with meeting dating app past the first month.

Ran meeting dating app alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

My notes on meeting dating app over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.

Three things that changed actual outcomes for me:

  • Write openers for meeting dating app that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of meeting dating app with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on meeting dating app that looks too polished — you will not notice it otherwise

I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on meeting dating app.

#7

I tested it properly, and what stood out about meeting dating app was how quickly the pattern set in.

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about meeting dating app was how quickly the pattern set in.

If you want something outside the big five for meeting dating app, Flamedate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

Others swear by Datingfly; I have no first-hand read on it.

#8

The loudest opinions on meeting dating app usually come from the shortest usage.

The useful test for meeting dating app is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Whatever you decide about meeting dating app, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

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