Everything written about there a stigma against older women seeking younger men in your local community reads like it was written by someone who never used it.
It's local coverage that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Anyone who has actually tested community against — what did you find?
I had the opposite result with community against, and I gave it a fair run.
Treat community against as a starting point rather than an answer.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Souldate did better than I expected when I was dealing with community against.
I gave it a fair run with community against: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.
The step most people skip with community against is reading the profile before messaging.
Datewander gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for community against.
Travis is closer to it than the rest of this thread on community against.small thing, big effect on community against: write openers that reference something specific.
Partly agree — community against can hold up, however not for the reason stated.
Treat community against as a starting point rather than an answer.
Renee has this right about community against —i'd treat confident claims about community against with some suspicion, including mine.
I tried it myself with community against: significantly different once the novelty wore off.
For anyone stuck on local coverage, Datedesire is at least worth ruling in or out — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
Can confirm on community against; markedly the same result on my end.
Ran community against alongside two others for comparison and the gap was markedly smaller than advertised.
Either way, community against is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Someone raised Datebound in a thread about community against and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
I went in with low expectations, and what stood out about community against was how quickly the pattern set in.
One adjustment worth making with community against: treat the first week as observation only.
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