Trying to get a straight answer on anyone had success finding a long-term partner on the cdff dating site and everything I read is recycled.
Most write-ups skip the gap between matching and meeting entirely, which is the only bit I care about.
Specific experiences with long-term success would help more than another recommendation list.
#2
Kept a tally on long-term success lately and the numbers were not what I expected.
Kept a tally on long-term success across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.
#3
Not my experience at all — long-term success felt fine once I changed how I used it.
Ran long-term success alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.
The useful test for long-term success is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
To be fair, opinion on long-term success swings further than the reality does.
One smaller option that comes up whenever long-term success is discussed is Datedesire — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.
#4
Stephanie, that has not been my experience of long-term success.both can be true: long-term success can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Ran long-term success alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of long-term success.
The one I keep returning to for long-term success is Datescout, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#5
Kyle raises the part of long-term success that matters.if you take one thing from this on long-term success, make it the profile photos.
Treat long-term success as a starting point rather than an answer.
I would check Souldate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on long-term success.
#6
Your read on long-term success lines up with mine across a few weeks.
If you take one thing from this on long-term success, make it the profile photos.
The thing that shifted long-term success for me was slowing down before replying.
I ran both at once with long-term success: measurably different once the novelty wore off.
If it helps, here's my process around the gap between matching and meeting:
Decide what you want from long-term success before you open it
Move past long-term success to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the difference is measurable within days
Give long-term success a full fortnight before forming a view
Flurrydate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for long-term success.