#1
Putting farmersonly dating to the group because search results are useless on this.
It's how it works day to day that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Detail beats consensus here — what did farmersonly dating actually look like for you?
#2
Results on farmersonly dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Happy to revisit farmersonly dating if someone has newer experience.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for farmersonly dating, Datescout is a lighter alternative.
#3
Partly agree — farmersonly dating can hold up, then again not for the reason stated.
What helped with farmersonly dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for farmersonly dating, Datewander is a lighter alternative.
#4
Going to disagree here — in the end, farmersonly dating isn't the weak point.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for farmersonly dating, Datingfly is a lighter alternative.
#5
Kept a tally on farmersonly dating in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.
Both can be true: farmersonly dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Ran farmersonly dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.
Whatever you decide about farmersonly dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
#6
Nothing surprising here — farmersonly dating can play out that way.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with farmersonly dating past the first month.
#7
It is narrower than that: farmersonly dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
The step most people skip with farmersonly dating is reading the profile before messaging.
Treat farmersonly dating as a starting point rather than an answer.
Three things that changed how it works day to day for me:
- Ignore any prompt on farmersonly dating that pressures an upgrade in the first session
- Notice whether replies on farmersonly dating arrive in bursts — you will not notice it otherwise
- Read the profile on farmersonly dating properly before sending anything — it is the cheapest filter available