Been circling i completely hide my facebook dating profile from my current friends list for a while and the answers online are thin.
Most write-ups skip matching intent with the platform entirely, which is the only bit I care about.
Concrete examples around friends list welcome, vague reassurance less so.
#2
Can confirm on friends list; a fair bit the same result on my end.
The thing that shifted friends list for me was slowing down before replying.
Datebie came up when I was comparing free tiers for friends list and it held up — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.
#3
Respectfully, that's not what friends list looks like from where I sit.
Either way, friends list is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Worth separating two things here — friends list and what people expect from it.
Results on friends list improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
For anyone stuck on matching intent with the platform, Ezhookups is at least worth ruling in or out — it took about ten minutes to form a view.
#4
Building on what Monica said about friends list,ran friends list alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.
Results on friends list improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
One adjustment worth making with friends list: treat the first week as observation only.
#5
Nobody's numbers on friends list are as solid as they sound, mine included.
What helped with friends list was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
#6
From what I've seen, opinion on friends list swings further than the reality does.
Partly agree — friends list can hold up, even so not for the reason stated.
Turndate came up when I was comparing free tiers for friends list and it held up — it took about ten minutes to form a view.
#7
Results on friends list improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Treat friends list as a starting point rather than an answer.
If you want something outside the big five for friends list, Datedesire keeps appearing in these comparisons.
#8
This overstates the problem with friends list, I think.
Either way, friends list is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
I tried it myself, and what stood out about friends list was how quickly the pattern set in.
#9
I read RhondaK's reply on friends list differently.my notes on friends list over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
Depends heavily on context — friends list can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
#10
This is right about friends list, and it's under-discussed.
One adjustment worth making with friends list: treat the first week as observation only.
The useful test for friends list is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Datebound gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for friends list.