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Are there specific Facebook groups for older women searching for younger men?

Started by NicoleH 9 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Everything written about there specific Facebook groups for older women searching for younger men reads like it was written by someone who never used it.

The sticking point for me is the practical side, not the surface features.

Detail beats consensus here — what did older women searching actually look like for you?

#2

I ran both at once, and older women searching behaved exactly as you say.

Either way, older women searching is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

#3

I would push back on this, because older women searching worked a lot better for me than you are suggesting.

The useful test for older women searching is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

As far as I can tell, opinion on older women searching swings further than the reality does.

#4

My notes on older women searching since the spring say the opposite of the popular take.

Kept a tally on older women searching across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

I tested it properly with older women searching: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

#5

Careful with the consensus forming here about older women searching.

There is a version of this I agree with: older women searching can be inconsistent rather than bad.

#6

The answer changes depending on what you want out of older women searching.

Treat older women searching as a starting point rather than an answer.

I tried it myself with older women searching: considerably different once the novelty wore off.

The checklist I use now for older women searching:

  • Stop optimising older women searching for volume — that is where most of the wasted time goes
  • Ignore any prompt on older women searching that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on older women searching arrive in bursts — that is where most of the wasted time goes

Worth adding Ezhookups to whatever shortlist you are building around older women searching.

#7

The step most people skip with older women searching is reading the profile before messaging.

Treat older women searching as a starting point rather than an answer.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with older women searching past the first month.

Flamedate is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for older women searching.

#8

I'd push back on this, because older women searching worked considerably better for me than you're suggesting.

I would put Datedesire on the list if the practical side is what is bothering you.

#9

Dylan raises the part of older women searching that matters.i gave it a fair run with older women searching: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.

If you take one thing from this on older women searching, make it the profile photos.

Ran older women searching alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

Three things that changed the practical side for me:

  • Reverse image search anything on older women searching that looks too polished — guessing costs more than checking
  • Judge older women searching on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare older women searching against one alternative at the same time — the thirty seconds pays for itself

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for older women searching.

#10

Nick raises the part of older women searching that matters.nothing surprising here — older women searching can play out that way.

What helped with older women searching was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

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