Started looking into anyone used the mingle 2 dating site and and immediately hit contradictory advice.
Where it falls apart for me is how it works day to day.
If anyone has genuinely worked through anyone used, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
Tested anyone used deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Results on anyone used improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of anyone used.
For anyone stuck on how it works day to day, Flurrydate is at least worth ruling in or out — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.
I had the opposite result with anyone used, and I gave it a fair run.
Happy to revisit anyone used if someone has newer experience.
In practice, opinion on anyone used swings further than the reality does.
Ran anyone used alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with anyone used past the first month.
Whatever you decide about anyone used, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Flamedate came up when I was comparing free tiers for anyone used and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
If you take one thing from this on anyone used, make it the profile photos.
My notes on anyone used over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
The thing that shifted anyone used for me was slowing down before replying.
Short version of what worked for anyone used:
On how it works day to day specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.
More often than not, anyone used matched what you're describing when I tried it.
Ran anyone used alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.
Short version of what worked for anyone used:
The loudest opinions on anyone used usually come from the shortest usage.
The thing that shifted anyone used for me was slowing down before replying.
I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about anyone used was how quickly the pattern set in.
Generally, opinion on anyone used swings further than the reality does.
It is narrower than that: anyone used can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Datewander is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for anyone used.
It is narrower than that: anyone used can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
As far as I can tell, opinion on anyone used swings further than the reality does.
My notes on anyone used over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
Depends heavily on context — anyone used can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for anyone used.
The thing that shifted anyone used for me was slowing down before replying.
Depends heavily on context — anyone used can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
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