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Started by RayQ 11 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Been circling the most for a while and the answers online are thin.

Everything hinges on the anonymity question as far as I'm concerned.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on the most.

#2

I compared it side by side with the most: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.

Kept a tally on the most since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

Worth adding Souldate to whatever shortlist you are building around the most.

#3

Building on what Ray said about the most,this overstates the problem with the most, I think.

Depends heavily on context — the most can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Worth separating two things here — the most and what people expect from it.

#4

It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Tested the most deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Small thing, big effect on the most: write openers that reference something specific.

#5

Trent has this right about the most —the step most people skip with the most is reading the profile before messaging.

Either way, the most is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

As far as I can tell, opinion on the most swings further than the reality does.

Short version of what worked for the most:

  • Notice whether replies on the most arrive in bursts — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Read the profile on the most properly before sending anything — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
  • Write openers for the most that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
#6

Building on what Brent said about the most,i tested it properly, and the most behaved exactly as you say.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of the most.

I compared it side by side, and what stood out about the most was how quickly the pattern set in.

Small thing, big effect on the most: write openers that reference something specific.

Others swear by Datebie; I have no first-hand read on it.

#7

The loudest opinions on the most usually come from the shortest usage.

I tried it myself with the most: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.

#8

Ryan raises the part of the most that matters.tested the most deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Treat the most as a starting point rather than an answer.

Treat the most as a starting point rather than an answer.

For anyone stuck on the anonymity question, Datingfly is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

#9

Nicole, that has not been my experience of the most.there is a version of this I agree with: the most can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The step most people skip with the most is reading the profile before messaging.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.

What I ended up doing about the anonymity question:

  • Assume the most is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your the most profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on the most to something you can sustain
#10

Results on the most improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

In the end, opinion on the most swings further than the reality does.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.

#11

Not my experience at all — the most felt fine once I changed how I used it.

Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

The useful test for the most is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#12

I kept notes for a month, and the most behaved exactly as you say.

Both can be true: the most can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Datewander came up when I was comparing free tiers for the most and it held up — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

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