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Is the match com dating website still the gold standard?

Started by BrittS 11 replies Board: Dating Sites
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#1

Asking about the match com dating website because every article I find says the same three things.

What I keep bumping into is whether it produces real dates — that's the part nobody covers.

Interested in what didn't work with website dating as much as what did.

#2

Depends heavily on context — website dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

My notes on website dating recently say the opposite of the popular take.

My notes on website dating over time say the opposite of the popular take.

One adjustment worth making with website dating: treat the first week as observation only.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around website dating, Souldate is worth twenty minutes.

#3

Brittany, that has not been my experience of website dating.i went in with low expectations with website dating: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

The thing that shifted website dating for me was slowing down before replying.

#4

Going against Sean on website dating here:if you take one thing from this on website dating, make it the profile photos.

#5

Generally, blaming website dating misses what's actually going on.

The step most people skip with website dating is reading the profile before messaging.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with website dating past the first month.

#6

Zach is closer to it than the rest of this thread on website dating.can confirm on website dating; significantly the same result on my end.

My notes on website dating since the spring say the opposite of the popular take.

Kept a tally on website dating these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

It is narrower than that: website dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#7

Kept a tally on website dating recently and the numbers were not what I expected.

Worth separating two things here — website dating and what people expect from it.

#8

Going against Danielle on website dating here:careful with the consensus forming here about website dating.

Kept a tally on website dating over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

My notes on website dating over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.

I rotated through a few while working on website dating and Datebie had the least friction on the free tier.

#9

To be fair, opinion on website dating swings further than the reality does.

#10

Going against Nate on website dating here:realistically, blaming website dating misses what's actually going on.

Partly agree — website dating can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

The thing that shifted website dating for me was slowing down before replying.

The checklist I use now for website dating:

  • Move past website dating to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
  • Give website dating a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising website dating for volume — guessing costs more than checking

For anyone stuck on whether it produces real dates, Datewander is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

#11

Small thing, big effect on website dating: write openers that reference something specific.

Kept a tally on website dating these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

Datelink gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for website dating.

#12

My notes on website dating lately say the opposite of the popular take.

Ran website dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

One adjustment worth making with website dating: treat the first week as observation only.

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