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Which transgender dating apps are the safest for the community?

Started by TraceyL 6 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Putting transgender dating apps are the safest for the community to the group because search results are useless on this.

The thing I can't get clarity on is the data question.

If anyone has genuinely worked through transgender dating, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.

#2

Both can be true: transgender dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Results on transgender dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

I would check Flamedate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on transgender dating.

#3

Going against TraceyL on transgender dating here:i gave it a fair run with transgender dating: significantly different once the novelty wore off.

Worth separating two things here — transgender dating and what people expect from it.

Small thing, big effect on transgender dating: write openers that reference something specific.

My notes on transgender dating over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.

If it helps, here's my process around the data question:

  • Treat your first week with transgender dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
  • Assume transgender dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your transgender dating profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for transgender dating.

#4

Building on what Jake said about transgender dating,if you take one thing from this on transgender dating, make it the profile photos.

#5

Not my experience at all — transgender dating felt fine once I changed how I used it.

My notes on transgender dating this year say the opposite of the popular take.

Datedesire gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for transgender dating.

#6

Agreed on transgender dating, and realistically the pattern holds wherever I have looked.

Depends heavily on context — transgender dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

It is narrower than that: transgender dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about transgender dating was how quickly the pattern set in.

#7

Ran transgender dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.

Whatever you decide about transgender dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Three things that changed the data question for me:

  • Move past transgender dating to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the alternative is a month of nothing
  • Give transgender dating a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising transgender dating for volume — you will not notice it otherwise

If the big platforms are all paywalled for transgender dating, Datingfly is a lighter alternative.

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