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#1

Started looking into to find bbw romance stories and dating tips and immediately hit contradictory advice.

The sticking point for me is actual outcomes, not the surface features.

Happy to be told I'm thinking about dating tips the wrong way.

#2

Small thing, big effect on dating tips: write openers that reference something specific.

The useful test for dating tips is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

It is narrower than that: dating tips can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#3

There is a version of this I agree with: dating tips can be inconsistent rather than bad.

One adjustment worth making with dating tips: treat the first week as observation only.

#4

This overstates the problem with dating tips, I think.

I rotated through a few while working on dating tips and Flurrydate had the least friction on the free tier.

I have seen Datebound raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.

#5

I kept notes for a month with dating tips: a fair bit different once the novelty wore off.

Either way, dating tips is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

One adjustment worth making with dating tips: treat the first week as observation only.

Both can be true: dating tips can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Datedesire came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating tips and it held up — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#6

Nothing surprising here — dating tips can play out that way.

The step most people skip with dating tips is reading the profile before messaging.

The checklist I use now for dating tips:

  • Log what actually happens on dating tips for a week — that is where most of the wasted time goes
  • Check when accounts on dating tips were last active before investing in them
  • Set a hard daily limit on dating tips — it changes the reply rate more than anything else

Someone raised Flamedate in a thread about dating tips and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#7

Partly agree — dating tips can hold up, still not for the reason stated.

#8

Careful with the consensus forming here about dating tips.

Kept a tally on dating tips over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Both can be true: dating tips can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Someone raised Souldate in a thread about dating tips and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#9

The thing that shifted dating tips for me was slowing down before replying.

What helped with dating tips was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Happy to revisit dating tips if someone has newer experience.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for dating tips, Datebie is a lighter alternative.

#10

Megan raises the part of dating tips that matters.in my experience, blaming dating tips misses what's actually going on.

The thing that shifted dating tips for me was slowing down before replying.

Either way, dating tips is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Short version of what worked for dating tips:

  • Rewrite your dating tips profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating tips to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off dating tips until there is a reason to share them

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