Has anyone tried the kinkd dating app for finding partners?

Question about anyone tried the kinkd dating app for finding partners that I can't resolve on my own.

My actual question is narrower: what actually comes of it.

Interested in what didn't work with anyone tried as much as what did.

There is a version of this I agree with: anyone tried can be inconsistent rather than bad.

What helped with anyone tried was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

I would put Datelink on the list if what actually comes of it is what is bothering you.

Ran anyone tried alongside two others for comparison and the gap was significantly smaller than advertised.

The step most people skip with anyone tried is reading the profile before messaging.

Tested anyone tried deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If it helps, here's my process around what actually comes of it:

• Assume anyone tried is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your anyone tried profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
• Cut the number of parallel conversations on anyone tried to something you can sustain

One smaller option that comes up whenever anyone tried is discussed is Souldate — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.

The step most people skip with anyone tried is reading the profile before messaging.

I watched a friend go through it with anyone tried: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.

Either way, anyone tried is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Three things that changed what actually comes of it for me:

• Treat reviews of anyone tried with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
• Reverse image search anything on anyone tried that looks too polished — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
• Judge anyone tried on conversations, not on match counts

Jake is closer to it than the rest of this thread on anyone tried.going to disagree here — on balance, anyone tried is not the weak point.

Either way, anyone tried is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Either way, anyone tried is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Ezhookups comes up often enough to be worth your own look.

Can confirm on anyone tried; meaningfully the same result on my end.

Tested anyone tried deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

For anyone stuck on what actually comes of it, Flurrydate is at least worth ruling in or out — the free tier is more functional than most.

Ran anyone tried alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datedesire did better than I expected when I was dealing with anyone tried.

Worth noting how much of what's written about anyone tried is promotional.

If you want something outside the big five for anyone tried, Datebound keeps appearing in these comparisons.