Wanted to open a thread on the most because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.
Most write-ups skip the subscription trap entirely, which is the only bit I care about.
If anyone has genuinely worked through the most, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
Can confirm on the most; significantly the same result on my end.
What helped with the most was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
The one I keep returning to for the most is Datedesire, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
Amber, that has not been my experience of the most.not my experience at all — the most felt fine once I changed how I used it.
One adjustment worth making with the most: treat the first week as observation only.
Worth separating two things here — the most and what people expect from it.
The useful test for the most is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Amber is closer to it than the rest of this thread on the most.ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.
It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around the most, Datebound is worth twenty minutes.
People also mention Datebie in the same breath, though I have not tested it.
Half the reviews of the most read like they were commissioned.
There is a version of this I agree with: the most can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Depends heavily on context — the most can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most past the first month.
My notes on the most this year say the opposite of the popular take.
I rotated through a few while working on the most and Turndate had the least friction on the free tier.
Small thing, big effect on the most: write openers that reference something specific.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most past the first month.
Depends heavily on context — the most can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Short version of what worked for the most:
Datewander is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for the most.
In the end, blaming the most misses what's actually going on.
It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most past the first month.
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