Would like some grounded input on there any dating apps for under 18s that aren't dangerous.
What I want to understand is how it performs in use rather than the feature list.
Specific experiences with HER would help more than another recommendation list.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.
Either way, HER is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
If it helps, here's my process around how it performs in use:
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Whatever you decide about HER, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for HER, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Respectfully, that's not what HER looks like from where I sit.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Agreed on HER, and on balance the pattern holds wherever I have looked.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
I would check Datebie next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER.
Kept a tally on HER for a while now and the numbers were not what I expected.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Half the reviews of HER read like they were commissioned.
If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Souldate is worth twenty minutes.
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