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What is the best dating and chatting app for finding international friends?

Started by AmberC 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Throwing the best dating and chatting app for finding international friends out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

My actual question is narrower: why threads go quiet.

Interested in what didn't work with dating chatting as much as what did.

#2

Your read on dating chatting lines up with mine over a couple of months.

Tested dating chatting deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

If you take one thing from this on dating chatting, make it the profile photos.

If it helps, here's my process around why threads go quiet:

  • Assume dating chatting is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your dating chatting profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating chatting to something you can sustain

On why threads go quiet specifically, Flamedate handled it better than the obvious names.

#3

Generally, blaming dating chatting misses what's actually going on.

The step most people skip with dating chatting is reading the profile before messaging.

The one I keep returning to for dating chatting is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#4

I tested it properly, and what stood out about dating chatting was how quickly the pattern set in.

It is narrower than that: dating chatting can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#5

The loudest opinions on dating chatting usually come from the shortest usage.

It is narrower than that: dating chatting can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Happy to revisit dating chatting if someone has newer experience.

#6

I read Jennifer's reply on dating chatting differently.depends heavily on context — dating chatting can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Results on dating chatting improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#7

The thing that shifted dating chatting for me was slowing down before replying.

#8

Respectfully, that's not what dating chatting looks like from where I sit.

People also mention Datebie in the same breath, though I have not tested it.

#9

Tested dating chatting deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Either way, dating chatting is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Kept a tally on dating chatting in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.

#10

Can confirm on dating chatting; quite a bit the same result on my end.

Ran dating chatting alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.

Both can be true: dating chatting can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around dating chatting, Datescout is worth twenty minutes.

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