#1
Nobody seems to write honestly about the best alternative for tinder if you want something more serious, so asking here.
The sticking point for me is which ones survive contact, not the surface features.
Interested in what didn't work with alternative something as much as what did.
#2
Results on alternative something improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for alternative something, Datingfly is a lighter alternative.
#3
Both can be true: alternative something can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of alternative something.
Partly agree — alternative something can hold up, but not for the reason stated.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around alternative something, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
#4
Not my experience at all — alternative something felt fine once I changed how I used it.
Results on alternative something improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
People also mention Datewander in the same breath, though I have not tested it.
#5
Kept a tally on alternative something over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.
The useful test for alternative something is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Worth separating two things here — alternative something and what people expect from it.
Depends heavily on context — alternative something can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Short version of what worked for alternative something:
- Decide what you want from alternative something before you open it
- Move past alternative something to a call earlier than feels comfortable — it is the cheapest filter available
- Give alternative something a full fortnight before forming a view
Flamedate came up when I was comparing free tiers for alternative something and it held up — the users who find it tend to know what they want.
#6
Agreed on alternative something, and to be fair the pattern holds wherever I've looked.
Tested alternative something deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Someone raised Flurrydate in a thread about alternative something and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
#7
The answer changes depending on what you want out of alternative something.
On which ones survive contact specifically, Datebie handled it better than the obvious names.