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Is there a simple meet and date app that skips the endless chatting phase?

Started by LaurenP 7 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Would like some grounded input on there a simple meet and date app that skips the endless chatting phase.

I've read plenty on the basics; being ignored is the gap.

Specific experiences with HER on phase would help more than another recommendation list.

#2

Ran HER on phase alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

Worth separating two things here — HER on phase and what people expect from it.

Depends heavily on context — HER on phase can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Worth adding Datescout to whatever shortlist you are building around HER on phase.

#3

Going to disagree here — for what it's worth, HER on phase is not the weak point.

Whatever you decide about HER on phase, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

Either way, HER on phase is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Results on HER on phase improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

What I ended up doing about being ignored:

  • Ignore any prompt on HER on phase that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on HER on phase arrive in bursts — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Read the profile on HER on phase properly before sending anything — the difference is measurable within days
#4

Worth separating two things here — HER on phase and what people expect from it.

#5

Ben has this right about HER on phase —small thing, big effect on HER on phase: write openers that reference something specific.

I would check Souldate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on phase.

#6

By and large, HER on phase matched what you're describing when I tried it.

If you take one thing from this on HER on phase, make it the profile photos.

Kept a tally on HER on phase over time and the numbers were not what I expected.

Someone raised Datedesire in a thread about HER on phase and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#7

Half the reviews of HER on phase read like they were commissioned.

Both can be true: HER on phase can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#8

Going against Joe on HER on phase here:i logged what happened, and what stood out about HER on phase was how quickly the pattern set in.

Whatever you decide about HER on phase, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.

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