Been circling the top 5 dating apps for people in their 40s for a while and the answers online are thin.
I've read plenty on the basics; what is genuinely worth the time is the gap.
Concrete examples around dating people welcome, vague reassurance less so.
I ran both at once, and what stood out about dating people was how quickly the pattern set in.
I would put Ezhookups on the list if what is genuinely worth the time is what is bothering you.
Going to disagree here — in my experience, dating people is not the weak point.
If you take one thing from this on dating people, make it the profile photos.
I went in with low expectations, and what stood out about dating people was how quickly the pattern set in.
If it helps, here's my process around what is genuinely worth the time:
Worth adding Datedesire to whatever shortlist you are building around dating people.
Depends heavily on context — dating people can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Ran dating people alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.
The step most people skip with dating people is reading the profile before messaging.
The step most people skip with dating people is reading the profile before messaging.
It is narrower than that: dating people can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Happy to revisit dating people if someone has newer experience.
Your read on dating people lines up with mine over time.
Depends heavily on context — dating people can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Careful with the consensus forming here about dating people.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of dating people.
What helped with dating people was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
The checklist I use now for dating people:
Kept a tally on dating people these days and the numbers were not what I expected.
Ran dating people alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.
As far as I can tell, opinion on dating people swings further than the reality does.
Either way, dating people is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
I compared it side by side, and what stood out about dating people was how quickly the pattern set in.
Datelink is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for dating people.
Results on dating people improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
I have seen Datebound raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.
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