Curious where people actually land on the most.
The thing I can't get clarity on is the intent mismatch.
If anyone has genuinely worked through the most, I'd rather hear specifics than general endorsement.
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If you take one thing from this on the most, make it the profile photos.
There is a version of this I agree with: the most can be inconsistent rather than bad.
It is narrower than that: the most can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Whatever you decide about the most, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Kept a tally on the most in the last stretch and the numbers were not what I expected.
Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for the most.
Hard disagree on the most — the issue is upstream of that.
Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.
Happy to revisit the most if someone has newer experience.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around the most, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
My notes on the most for a while now say the opposite of the popular take.
Nick, that has not been my experience of the most.your read on the most lines up with mine in the last stretch.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the most past the first month.
Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was noticeably smaller than advertised.
Either way, the most is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Short version of what worked for the most:
- Assume the most is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your the most profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on the most to something you can sustain
Both can be true: the most can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Partly agree — the most can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.
Depends heavily on context — the most can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
There is a version of this I agree with: the most can be inconsistent rather than bad.
I'd treat confident claims about the most with some suspicion, including mine.
Results on the most improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
What helped with the most was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
The step most people skip with the most is reading the profile before messaging.
My notes on the most over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
This overstates the problem with the most, I think.
The useful test for the most is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Ran the most alongside two others for comparison and the gap was markedly smaller than advertised.
What helped with the most was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Ray raises the part of the most that matters.kept a tally on the most lately and the numbers were not what I expected.
For what it's worth, opinion on the most swings further than the reality does.
There is a version of this I agree with: the most can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Happy to revisit the most if someone has newer experience.
Whatever you decide about the most, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
The checklist I use now for the most:
- Assume the most is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your the most profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on the most to something you can sustain
The one I keep returning to for the most is Datelink, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
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