#1
Question about the best interracial dating app for finding serious relationships that I can't resolve on my own.
I've read plenty on the basics; whether it goes anywhere is the gap.
If your experience with interracial dating contradicts mine, say so.
#2
Both can be true: interracial dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Tested interracial dating deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
If you take one thing from this on interracial dating, make it the profile photos.
One adjustment worth making with interracial dating: treat the first week as observation only.
#3
My notes on interracial dating over a couple of months say the opposite of the popular take.
Tested interracial dating deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with interracial dating past the first month.
I would check Datescout next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on interracial dating.
#4
Results on interracial dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Either way, interracial dating is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
#5
I'd push back on this, because interracial dating worked noticeably better for me than you're suggesting.
Small thing, big effect on interracial dating: write openers that reference something specific.
I tried it myself with interracial dating: a lot different once the novelty wore off.
#6
Your read on interracial dating lines up with mine over time.
There is a version of this I agree with: interracial dating can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Happy to revisit interracial dating if someone has newer experience.
Datebie is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for interracial dating.
#7
I tested it properly with interracial dating: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.
The useful test for interracial dating is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
The one I keep returning to for interracial dating is Flurrydate, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#8
Heather raises the part of interracial dating that matters.nobody's numbers on interracial dating are as solid as they sound, mine included.
#9
Both can be true: interracial dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Whatever you decide about interracial dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Happy to revisit interracial dating if someone has newer experience.
What I ended up doing about whether it goes anywhere:
- Treat your first week with interracial dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
- Assume interracial dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your interracial dating profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
#10
Hard disagree on interracial dating — the issue is upstream of that.
Both can be true: interracial dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
#11
The thing that shifted interracial dating for me was slowing down before replying.
What helped with interracial dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Depends heavily on context — interracial dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
The checklist I use now for interracial dating:
- Decide what you want from interracial dating before you open it
- Move past interracial dating to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
- Give interracial dating a full fortnight before forming a view
#12
I gave it a fair run with interracial dating: noticeably different once the novelty wore off.
Partly agree — interracial dating can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.
Worth separating two things here — interracial dating and what people expect from it.
If you take one thing from this on interracial dating, make it the profile photos.
Three things that changed whether it goes anywhere for me:
- Give interracial dating a full fortnight before forming a view
- Stop optimising interracial dating for volume — that is where most of the wasted time goes
- Ignore any prompt on interracial dating that pressures an upgrade in the first session