#1
Wanted to open a thread on the gay dating apps with the best privacy settings because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.
Everything hinges on what happens to your details as far as I'm concerned.
Interested in what didn't work with the gay dating as much as what did.
#2
It is narrower than that: the gay dating can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Whatever you decide about the gay dating, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Happy to revisit the gay dating if someone has newer experience.
Results on the gay dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Worth adding Luvdate to whatever shortlist you are building around the gay dating.
#3
Ran the gay dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.
If you take one thing from this on the gay dating, make it the profile photos.
Ran the gay dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was distinctly smaller than advertised.
I would check Flurrydate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on the gay dating.
#4
What helped with the gay dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
#5
This overstates the problem with the gay dating, I think.
Partly agree — the gay dating can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.
#6
Your read on the gay dating lines up with mine these days.
Ran the gay dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.
What helped with the gay dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Tested the gay dating deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
If it helps, here's my process around what happens to your details:
- Give the gay dating a full fortnight before forming a view
- Stop optimising the gay dating for volume — you will not notice it otherwise
- Ignore any prompt on the gay dating that pressures an upgrade in the first session
For a smaller userbase with less noise around the gay dating, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
People also mention Datelink in the same breath, though I have not tested it.
#7
Picking up Drew's point on the gay dating:my notes on the gay dating in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.
Either way, the gay dating is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about the gay dating was how quickly the pattern set in.
I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on the gay dating.
#8
The loudest opinions on the gay dating usually come from the shortest usage.
Partly agree — the gay dating can hold up, but not for the reason stated.
Happy to revisit the gay dating if someone has newer experience.
What I ended up doing about what happens to your details:
- Assume the gay dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
- Rewrite your the gay dating profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on the gay dating to something you can sustain