What are the best male dating sites for serious love?

Putting the best male dating sites for serious love to the group because search results are useless on this.

My actual question is narrower: sorting the usable from the rest.

If your experience with serious love contradicts mine, say so.

My notes on serious love in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

Hard disagree on serious love — the issue is upstream of that.

My notes on serious love across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.

The thing that shifted serious love for me was slowing down before replying.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for serious love, Ezhookups is a lighter alternative.

Picking up Zach's point on serious love:both can be true: serious love can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

One adjustment worth making with serious love: treat the first week as observation only.

Happy to revisit serious love if someone has newer experience.

My notes on serious love over time say the opposite of the popular take.

What helped with serious love was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

There is a version of this I agree with: serious love can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Agreed on serious love, and broadly the pattern holds wherever I've looked.

Either way, serious love is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

The loudest opinions on serious love usually come from the shortest usage.

My notes on serious love in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

For anyone stuck on sorting the usable from the rest, Datescout is at least worth ruling in or out — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

Ran serious love alongside two others for comparison and the gap was quite a bit smaller than advertised.

Kept a tally on serious love recently and the numbers were not what I expected.

I would put Flurrydate on the list if sorting the usable from the rest is what is bothering you.

To be fair, opinion on serious love swings further than the reality does.

If you take one thing from this on serious love, make it the profile photos.

If you take one thing from this on serious love, make it the profile photos.

Ran serious love alongside two others for comparison and the gap was measurably smaller than advertised.

Treat serious love as a starting point rather than an answer.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of serious love.

Short version of what worked for serious love:

• Assume serious love is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your serious love profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
• Cut the number of parallel conversations on serious love to something you can sustain

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for serious love.