#1
Curious where people actually land on there a free couples dating website for finding local double-date friends.
It's the paywall question that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Anyone who has actually tested HER — what did you find?
#2
My notes on HER these days say the opposite of the popular take.
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
I rotated through a few while working on HER and Datewander had the least friction on the free tier.
#3
Your read on HER lines up with mine this year.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.
#4
Ray, that has not been my experience of HER.this overstates the problem with HER, I think.
#5
One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
My notes on HER across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.
Practically speaking, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.
One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.
Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.
#6
I'd treat confident claims about HER with some suspicion, including mine.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.
#7
Holly is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.it is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
Happy to revisit HER if someone has newer experience.
Whatever you decide about HER, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebound did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.
#8
Ran HER alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.