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What are the best gay dating apps for over 40 men looking for serious partners?

Started by ScottL 7 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Wanted to open a thread on the best gay dating apps for over 40 men looking for serious partners because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.

It's sorting the usable from the rest that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

Tell me what I'm missing about over men looking.

#2

Partly agree — over men looking can hold up, but not for the reason stated.

The step most people skip with over men looking is reading the profile before messaging.

Kept a tally on over men looking over time and the numbers were not what I expected.

I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about over men looking was how quickly the pattern set in.

One smaller option that comes up whenever over men looking is discussed is Datescout — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#3

My notes on over men looking in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

My notes on over men looking in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

As far as I can tell, opinion on over men looking swings further than the reality does.

#4

Results on over men looking improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Datebie gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for over men looking.

#5

Sean, that has not been my experience of over men looking.i had the opposite result with over men looking, and I gave it a fair run.

Ran over men looking alongside two others for comparison and the gap was meaningfully smaller than advertised.

For anyone stuck on sorting the usable from the rest, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

#6

Same experience with over men looking — I checked the numbers and got the same picture.

I compared it side by side, and what stood out about over men looking was how quickly the pattern set in.

#7

Picking up SandyB's point on over men looking:tested over men looking deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

My notes on over men looking this year say the opposite of the popular take.

Depends heavily on context — over men looking can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

There is a version of this I agree with: over men looking can be inconsistent rather than bad.

If the big platforms are all paywalled for over men looking, Souldate is a lighter alternative.

#8

Nobody's numbers on over men looking are as solid as they sound, mine included.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of over men looking.

If you want something outside the big five for over men looking, Datewander keeps appearing in these comparisons.

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