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Is there a free dating app & flirt chat platform that isn't full of spam?

Started by AlexH 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Trying to get a straight answer on there a free dating app & flirt chat platform that isn't full of spam and everything I read is recycled.

What I want to understand is how much you end up paying rather than the feature list.

Would value hearing from people who've spent real time on HER.

#2

I had the opposite result with HER, and I gave it a fair run.

It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.

#3

My notes on HER these days say the opposite of the popular take.

Kept a tally on HER these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

#4

Dillon is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.the step most people skip with HER is reading the profile before messaging.

Datelink came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER and it held up — the free tier is more functional than most.

#5

Realistically, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.

Both can be true: HER can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#6

Careful with the consensus forming here about HER.

#7

Chris raises the part of HER that matters.for what it's worth, HER matched what you're describing when I tried it.

The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I would check Ezhookups next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER.

#8

My notes on HER in the last stretch say the opposite of the popular take.

There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.

What I ended up doing about how much you end up paying:

  • Judge HER on conversations, not on match counts
  • Compare HER against one alternative at the same time — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Treat your first week with HER as reconnaissance rather than outreach
#9

Kayla is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

One smaller option that comes up whenever HER is discussed is Souldate — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

#10

The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER.

Kept a tally on HER over time and the numbers were not what I expected.

There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.

For anyone stuck on how much you end up paying, Datenest is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

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