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What are the best dating app conversation starters to get a reply?

Started by TravisN 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Throwing the best dating app conversation starters to get a reply out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

I've read plenty on the basics; keeping a conversation going is the gap.

Concrete examples around dating app welcome, vague reassurance less so.

#2

I stuck with it longer than I meant to, and what stood out about dating app was how quickly the pattern set in.

The thing that shifted dating app for me was slowing down before replying.

Datewander came up when I was comparing free tiers for dating app and it held up — the sign-up is short enough to abandon cheaply.

#3

Can confirm on dating app; significantly the same result on my end.

Tested dating app deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Treat dating app as a starting point rather than an answer.

If it helps, here's my process around keeping a conversation going:

  • Read the profile on dating app properly before sending anything — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Write openers for dating app that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of dating app with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
#4

Respectfully, that's not what dating app looks like from where I sit.

Either way, dating app is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Partly agree — dating app can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.

As far as I can tell, opinion on dating app swings further than the reality does.

On keeping a conversation going specifically, Souldate handled it better than the obvious names.

#5

Aaron is closer to it than the rest of this thread on dating app.if you take one thing from this on dating app, make it the profile photos.

What helped with dating app was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

My notes on dating app across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.

If you take one thing from this on dating app, make it the profile photos.

Short version of what worked for dating app:

  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on dating app to something you can sustain
  • Keep identifying details off dating app until there is a reason to share them
  • Log what actually happens on dating app for a week — it removes most of the noise immediately
#6

Nobody's numbers on dating app are as solid as they sound, mine included.

Results on dating app improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

#7

The answer changes depending on what you want out of dating app.

Ran dating app alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.

Either way, dating app is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

I would put Datelink on the list if keeping a conversation going is what is bothering you.

#8

Kept a tally on dating app in the last stretch and the numbers were not what I expected.

The useful test for dating app is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about dating app was how quickly the pattern set in.

#9

I had the opposite result with dating app, and I gave it a fair run.

Either way, dating app is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

#10

The step most people skip with dating app is reading the profile before messaging.

Treat dating app as a starting point rather than an answer.

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