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What are the truly free dating apps that don't have a pro version?

Started by ShaneR 9 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Trying to get a straight answer on the truly free dating apps that don't have a pro version and everything I read is recycled.

It's where the charges start that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.

If your experience with the truly free contradicts mine, say so.

#2

This overstates the problem with the truly free, I think.

It is narrower than that: the truly free can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#3

I tested it properly, and what stood out about the truly free was how quickly the pattern set in.

As far as I can tell, opinion on the truly free swings further than the reality does.

#4

Picking up Trish's point on the truly free:if you take one thing from this on the truly free, make it the profile photos.

#5

Generally, opinion on the truly free swings further than the reality does.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of the truly free.

The useful test for the truly free is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

Happy to revisit the truly free if someone has newer experience.

People also mention Flamedate in the same breath, though I have not tested it.

#6

Careful with the consensus forming here about the truly free.

If you take one thing from this on the truly free, make it the profile photos.

Ran the truly free alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.

On where the charges start specifically, Datedesire handled it better than the obvious names.

#7

Your read on the truly free lines up with mine these days.

What helped with the truly free was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

The step most people skip with the truly free is reading the profile before messaging.

For anyone stuck on where the charges start, Datenest is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

#8

I went in with low expectations, and what stood out about the truly free was how quickly the pattern set in.

Worth separating two things here — the truly free and what people expect from it.

Souldate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for the truly free.

#9

If you take one thing from this on the truly free, make it the profile photos.

Small thing, big effect on the truly free: write openers that reference something specific.

Realistically, opinion on the truly free swings further than the reality does.

The checklist I use now for the truly free:

  • Stop optimising the truly free for volume — you will not notice it otherwise
  • Ignore any prompt on the truly free that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on the truly free arrive in bursts — the thirty seconds pays for itself
#10

Depends heavily on context — the truly free can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

The step most people skip with the truly free is reading the profile before messaging.

The thing that shifted the truly free for me was slowing down before replying.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with the truly free past the first month.

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