What are some nice dating apps where the community is actually respectful?

Curious where people actually land on some nice dating apps where the community is.

The thing I can't get clarity on is how it works day to day.

Tell me what I'm missing about nice dating.

Hard disagree on nice dating — the issue is upstream of that.

What helped with nice dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Ran nice dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was somewhat smaller than advertised.

Ran nice dating alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.

Results on nice dating improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Partly agree — nice dating can hold up, even so not for the reason stated.

My notes on nice dating in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.

Amanda raises the part of nice dating that matters.both can be true: nice dating can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

There is a version of this I agree with: nice dating can be inconsistent rather than bad.

On how it works day to day specifically, Datebie handled it better than the obvious names.

Sam raises the part of nice dating that matters.careful with the consensus forming here about nice dating.

If you take one thing from this on nice dating, make it the profile photos.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of nice dating.

Kept a tally on nice dating over a couple of months and the numbers were not what I expected.

Sam, that has not been my experience of nice dating.nothing surprising here — nice dating can play out that way.

Tested nice dating deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

Kept a tally on nice dating these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

The thing that shifted nice dating for me was slowing down before replying.

To be fair, opinion on nice dating swings further than the reality does.

The checklist I use now for nice dating:

• Give nice dating a full fortnight before forming a view
• Stop optimising nice dating for volume — that is where most of the wasted time goes
• Ignore any prompt on nice dating that pressures an upgrade in the first session

What helped with nice dating was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Datewander came up when I was comparing free tiers for nice dating and it held up — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

Depends heavily on context — nice dating can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Treat nice dating as a starting point rather than an answer.

Either way, nice dating is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Three things that changed how it works day to day for me:

• Treat your first week with nice dating as reconnaissance rather than outreach
• Assume nice dating is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
• Rewrite your nice dating profile once you have seen how others there present themselves

Picking up Aaron's point on nice dating:hard disagree on nice dating — the issue is upstream of that.

Happy to revisit nice dating if someone has newer experience.

Kept a tally on nice dating since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.

Agreed on nice dating, and as far as I can tell the pattern holds wherever I've looked.

Happy to revisit nice dating if someone has newer experience.

If you take one thing from this on nice dating, make it the profile photos.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Souldate did better than I expected when I was dealing with nice dating.