#1
Trying to get a straight answer on there a gay dating app for free that doesn't limit your daily swipes and everything I read is recycled.
What I keep bumping into is what it actually costs — that's the part nobody covers.
Anyone who has actually tested HER — what did you find?
#2
Worth separating two things here — HER and what people expect from it.
If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.
#3
I checked the numbers, and what stood out about HER was how quickly the pattern set in.
Partly agree — HER can hold up, on the other hand not for the reason stated.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Datebie is worth twenty minutes.
#4
What helped with HER was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.
What I ended up doing about what it actually costs:
- Move past HER to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the thirty seconds pays for itself
- Give HER a full fortnight before forming a view
- Stop optimising HER for volume — you will not notice it otherwise
#5
Respectfully, that's not what HER looks like from where I sit.
I went in with low expectations with HER: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.
On what it actually costs specifically, Datebound handled it better than the obvious names.
#6
Same experience with HER — I gave it a fair run and got the same picture.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.
If you want something outside the big five for HER, Datelink keeps appearing in these comparisons.
#7
My notes on HER in the past year say the opposite of the popular take.
From what I've seen, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Three things that changed what it actually costs for me:
- Give HER a full fortnight before forming a view
- Stop optimising HER for volume — otherwise you are guessing
- Ignore any prompt on HER that pressures an upgrade in the first session
#8
Alicia, that has not been my experience of HER.half the reviews of HER read like they were commissioned.