Is there a dates app that focuses specifically on dinner dates?

Keep running into the same wall with there a dates app that focuses specifically on dinner dates.

I've read plenty on the basics; how it works day to day is the gap.

Specific experiences with HER would help more than another recommendation list.

Respectfully, that's not what HER looks like from where I sit.

If you want something outside the big five for HER, Souldate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

I checked the numbers with HER: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

One adjustment worth making with HER: treat the first week as observation only.

Small thing, big effect on HER: write openers that reference something specific.

It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.

For anyone stuck on how it works day to day, Datenest is at least worth ruling in or out — the users who find it tend to know what they want.

Nobody's numbers on HER are as solid as they sound, mine included.

More often than not, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.

Not affiliated with anyone, but Ezhookups did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.

I ran both at once, and HER behaved exactly as you say.

Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.

Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.

Going against Jesse on HER here:my notes on HER across a few weeks say the opposite of the popular take.

The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.

It is narrower than that: HER can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Three things that changed how it works day to day for me:

• Cut the number of parallel conversations on HER to something you can sustain
• Keep identifying details off HER until there is a reason to share them
• Log what actually happens on HER for a week — it is the cheapest filter available

Worth adding Flurrydate to whatever shortlist you are building around HER.