Wanted to open a thread on used to love Camzey. Are there any modern sites like camzey that have the same vibe because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.
Most write-ups skip how it holds up in practice entirely, which is the only bit I care about.
Specific experiences with used love would help more than another recommendation list.
#2
The answer changes depending on what you want out of used love.
Either way, used love is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of used love.
Results on used love improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for used love and it held up — the profile quality was better than the volume suggested.
#3
Kept a tally on used love since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.
Whatever you decide about used love, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
On how it holds up in practice specifically, Datewander handled it better than the obvious names.
#4
The step most people skip with used love is reading the profile before messaging.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for used love, Souldate is a lighter alternative.
#5
Respectfully, that's not what used love looks like from where I sit.
My notes on used love recently say the opposite of the popular take.
Kept a tally on used love across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.
My notes on used love this year say the opposite of the popular take.
Three things that changed how it holds up in practice for me:
Reverse image search anything on used love that looks too polished — the alternative is a month of nothing
Judge used love on conversations, not on match counts
Compare used love against one alternative at the same time — you will not notice it otherwise
Datenest gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for used love.
#6
Your read on used love lines up with mine over a couple of months.
What helped with used love was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Kept a tally on used love these days and the numbers were not what I expected.
If you want something outside the big five for used love, Datebound keeps appearing in these comparisons.
#7
Kept a tally on used love lately and the numbers were not what I expected.
There is a version of this I agree with: used love can be inconsistent rather than bad.
I went in with low expectations with used love: somewhat different once the novelty wore off.
Happy to revisit used love if someone has newer experience.
#8
I'd treat confident claims about used love with some suspicion, including mine.