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What is sec chat roulette?

Started by StephR 7 replies Board: Cam & Chat
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#1

Hoping someone here has done the legwork on sec chat roulette.

Everything hinges on what actually gets responded to as far as I'm concerned.

Anyone who has actually tested sec chat roulette — what did you find?

#2

Worth separating two things here — sec chat roulette and what people expect from it.

Kept a tally on sec chat roulette lately and the numbers were not what I expected.

The useful test for sec chat roulette is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

The useful test for sec chat roulette is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

#3

Tested sec chat roulette deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

On balance, opinion on sec chat roulette swings further than the reality does.

In practice, opinion on sec chat roulette swings further than the reality does.

Ezhookups is the smaller name I would test alongside whatever you pick for sec chat roulette.

#4

If you take one thing from this on sec chat roulette, make it the profile photos.

If you want something outside the big five for sec chat roulette, Souldate keeps appearing in these comparisons.

#5

Hard disagree on sec chat roulette — the issue is upstream of that.

I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on sec chat roulette.

#6

Agreed on sec chat roulette, and from what I've seen the pattern holds wherever I've looked.

The useful test for sec chat roulette is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

The step most people skip with sec chat roulette is reading the profile before messaging.

Tested sec chat roulette deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

The one I keep returning to for sec chat roulette is Datescout, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#7

Ran sec chat roulette alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.

I used it daily for a while with sec chat roulette: distinctly different once the novelty wore off.

There is a version of this I agree with: sec chat roulette can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Either way, sec chat roulette is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

If it helps, here's my process around what actually gets responded to:

  • Write openers for sec chat roulette that reference one specific detail, never a greeting alone
  • Treat reviews of sec chat roulette with the scepticism you would apply to any ad
  • Reverse image search anything on sec chat roulette that looks too polished — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
#8

I'd treat confident claims about sec chat roulette with some suspicion, including mine.

Worth separating two things here — sec chat roulette and what people expect from it.

One smaller option that comes up whenever sec chat roulette is discussed is Datedesire — it is quiet, which cuts both ways.

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