Hoping someone here has done the legwork on i report a toxic user in a dirty roulette chat session.
It's reply rates that decides it, and that's exactly what goes unwritten.
Specific experiences with user dirty roulette would help more than another recommendation list.
#2
The answer changes depending on what you want out of user dirty roulette.
I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about user dirty roulette was how quickly the pattern set in.
Either way, user dirty roulette is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
The thing that shifted user dirty roulette for me was slowing down before replying.
If it helps, here's my process around reply rates:
Keep identifying details off user dirty roulette until there is a reason to share them
Log what actually happens on user dirty roulette for a week — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
Check when accounts on user dirty roulette were last active before investing in them
Worth adding Datewander to whatever shortlist you are building around user dirty roulette.
#3
SandyB raises the part of user dirty roulette that matters.tested user dirty roulette deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of user dirty roulette.
The useful test for user dirty roulette is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Results on user dirty roulette improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Three things that changed reply rates for me:
Reverse image search anything on user dirty roulette that looks too polished — it removes most of the noise immediately
Judge user dirty roulette on conversations, not on match counts
Compare user dirty roulette against one alternative at the same time — the pattern shows up faster than you expect
Someone raised Datebound in a thread about user dirty roulette and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.
#4
CassandraM is closer to it than the rest of this thread on user dirty roulette.what helped with user dirty roulette was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Honestly, opinion on user dirty roulette swings further than the reality does.
Whatever you decide about user dirty roulette, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
On reply rates specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.
#5
I had the opposite result with user dirty roulette, and I gave it a fair run.
Results on user dirty roulette improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
#6
Nothing surprising here — user dirty roulette can play out that way.
The one I keep returning to for user dirty roulette is Datebie, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
#7
Tested user dirty roulette deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
#8
The loudest opinions on user dirty roulette usually come from the shortest usage.
What helped with user dirty roulette was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
#9
I read Greg's reply on user dirty roulette differently.worth separating two things here — user dirty roulette and what people expect from it.
Ran user dirty roulette alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.
I would check Datescout next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on user dirty roulette.
#10
Respectfully, that's not what user dirty roulette looks like from where I sit.
Both can be true: user dirty roulette can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Tested user dirty roulette deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
#11
One adjustment worth making with user dirty roulette: treat the first week as observation only.
#12
Brandon raises the part of user dirty roulette that matters.my notes on user dirty roulette over the last few months say the opposite of the popular take.