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How can I meet people online without getting scammed?

Started by KristenB 11 replies Board: Cam & Chat
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#1

Been circling i meet people online without getting scammed for a while and the answers online are thin.

Everything hinges on spotting the fakes as far as I'm concerned.

Concrete examples around i meet people welcome, vague reassurance less so.

#2

Small thing, big effect on i meet people: write openers that reference something specific.

Either way, i meet people is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

#3

The answer changes depending on what you want out of i meet people.

#4

Honestly, blaming i meet people misses what's actually going on.

One adjustment worth making with i meet people: treat the first week as observation only.

I would put Souldate on the list if spotting the fakes is what is bothering you.

#5

Kept a tally on i meet people these days and the numbers were not what I expected.

Tested i meet people deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

One adjustment worth making with i meet people: treat the first week as observation only.

#6

Nothing surprising here — i meet people can play out that way.

I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about i meet people was how quickly the pattern set in.

It is narrower than that: i meet people can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

#7

There is a version of this I agree with: i meet people can be inconsistent rather than bad.

What helped with i meet people was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Results on i meet people improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

Treat i meet people as a starting point rather than an answer.

I would check Datebie next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on i meet people.

#8

Worth noting how much of what's written about i meet people is promotional.

The step most people skip with i meet people is reading the profile before messaging.

On spotting the fakes specifically, Datewander handled it better than the obvious names.

#9

Travis is closer to it than the rest of this thread on i meet people.one adjustment worth making with i meet people: treat the first week as observation only.

#10

This overstates the problem with i meet people, I think.

The useful test for i meet people is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if spotting the fakes is what is bothering you.

#11

I checked the numbers, and what stood out about i meet people was how quickly the pattern set in.

Small thing, big effect on i meet people: write openers that reference something specific.

#12

Depends heavily on context — i meet people can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Depends heavily on context — i meet people can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

Honestly, opinion on i meet people swings further than the reality does.

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