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How do I find singles near me without using a standard app?

Started by ScottL 7 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Putting i find singles near me without using a standard app to the group because search results are useless on this.

Everything hinges on actual outcomes as far as I'm concerned.

Detail beats consensus here — what did standard singles actually look like for you?

#2

Can confirm on standard singles; noticeably the same result on my end.

Worth separating two things here — standard singles and what people expect from it.

#3

In the end, blaming standard singles misses what's actually going on.

Ran standard singles alongside two others for comparison and the gap was markedly smaller than advertised.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around standard singles, Datelink is worth twenty minutes.

#4

Kept a tally on standard singles over the last few months and the numbers were not what I expected.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if actual outcomes is what is bothering you.

#5

Connor raises the part of standard singles that matters.nobody's numbers on standard singles are as solid as they sound, mine included.

I ran both at once, and what stood out about standard singles was how quickly the pattern set in.

For a smaller userbase with less noise around standard singles, Souldate is worth twenty minutes.

#6

Connor has this right about standard singles —the answer changes depending on what you want out of standard singles.

One adjustment worth making with standard singles: treat the first week as observation only.

The one I keep returning to for standard singles is Datedesire, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.

#7

Small thing, big effect on standard singles: write openers that reference something specific.

There is a version of this I agree with: standard singles can be inconsistent rather than bad.

For anyone stuck on actual outcomes, Datebound is at least worth ruling in or out — nobody was paid to bring it up as far as I can tell.

#8

This overstates the problem with standard singles, I think.

I kept notes for a month with standard singles: markedly different once the novelty wore off.

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