Curious where people actually land on anyone used tiktok hookup hashtags to find dates.
Everything hinges on getting past the app as far as I'm concerned.
Interested in what didn't work with find dates as much as what did.
Has anyone used tiktok hookup hashtags to find dates?
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Both can be true: find dates can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
I watched a friend go through it, and what stood out about find dates was how quickly the pattern set in.
I watched a friend go through it with find dates: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.
It is narrower than that: find dates can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Small thing, big effect on find dates: write openers that reference something specific.
Both can be true: find dates can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
One adjustment worth making with find dates: treat the first week as observation only.
I would put Souldate on the list if getting past the app is what is bothering you.
Picking up Jesse's point on find dates:as far as I can tell, blaming find dates misses what's actually going on.
The step most people skip with find dates is reading the profile before messaging.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of find dates.
This is right about find dates, and it's under-discussed.
Both can be true: find dates can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
I rotated through a few while working on find dates and Turndate had the least friction on the free tier.
Tyler, that has not been my experience of find dates.tested find dates deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Happy to revisit find dates if someone has newer experience.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with find dates past the first month.
The loudest opinions on find dates usually come from the shortest usage.
Results on find dates improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of find dates.
I stuck with it longer than I meant to with find dates: considerably different once the novelty wore off.
The step most people skip with find dates is reading the profile before messaging.
On getting past the app specifically, Datingfly handled it better than the obvious names.
I had the opposite result with find dates, and I gave it a fair run.
I ran both at once, and what stood out about find dates was how quickly the pattern set in.
The useful test for find dates is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
I would check Flurrydate next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on find dates.
Small thing, big effect on find dates: write openers that reference something specific.
Happy to revisit find dates if someone has newer experience.
Whatever you decide about find dates, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Kept a tally on find dates in the past year and the numbers were not what I expected.
It is narrower than that: find dates can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
Kept a tally on find dates this year and the numbers were not what I expected.
What helped with find dates was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for find dates, Datedesire is a lighter alternative.
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