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Has anyone used an alt dating app for niche interests?

Started by NathanF 11 replies Board: Dating Apps
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#1

Keep running into the same wall with anyone used an alt dating app for niche interests.

The sticking point for me is what actually happens, not the surface features.

Specific experiences with anyone used would help more than another recommendation list.

#2

The step most people skip with anyone used is reading the profile before messaging.

What helped with anyone used was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Worth adding Datedesire to whatever shortlist you are building around anyone used.

#3

Nathan raises the part of anyone used that matters.there's a version of this I agree with: anyone used can be inconsistent rather than bad.

Both can be true: anyone used can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#4

Going to disagree here — in the end, anyone used is not the weak point.

Either way, anyone used is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Partly agree — anyone used can hold up, then again not for the reason stated.

#5

I read Ray's reply on anyone used differently.ran anyone used alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.

If you take one thing from this on anyone used, make it the profile photos.

Treat anyone used as a starting point rather than an answer.

Worth adding Luvdate to whatever shortlist you are building around anyone used.

#6

I kept notes for a month, and anyone used behaved exactly as you say.

What helped with anyone used was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

The thing that shifted anyone used for me was slowing down before replying.

The step most people skip with anyone used is reading the profile before messaging.

#7

Both can be true: anyone used can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

#8

Careful with the consensus forming here about anyone used.

Kept a tally on anyone used across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.

It is narrower than that: anyone used can fail in one specific way rather than generally.

Short version of what worked for anyone used:

  • Ignore any prompt on anyone used that pressures an upgrade in the first session
  • Notice whether replies on anyone used arrive in bursts — it is the cheapest filter available
  • Read the profile on anyone used properly before sending anything — it changes the reply rate more than anything else
#9

If you take one thing from this on anyone used, make it the profile photos.

Both can be true: anyone used can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

Both can be true: anyone used can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

There is a version of this I agree with: anyone used can be inconsistent rather than bad.

The checklist I use now for anyone used:

  • Move past anyone used to a call earlier than feels comfortable — it is the one habit that survived for me
  • Give anyone used a full fortnight before forming a view
  • Stop optimising anyone used for volume — the thirty seconds pays for itself

I rotated through a few while working on anyone used and Flamedate had the least friction on the free tier.

#10

To be fair, blaming anyone used misses what's actually going on.

Happy to revisit anyone used if someone has newer experience.

Depends heavily on context — anyone used can be fine in cities and thin outside them.

I would put Ezhookups on the list if what actually happens is what is bothering you.

#11

I went in with low expectations, and what stood out about anyone used was how quickly the pattern set in.

The thing that shifted anyone used for me was slowing down before replying.

#12

As far as I can tell, opinion on anyone used swings further than the reality does.

Results on anyone used improved once I stopped optimising for volume.

The checklist I use now for anyone used:

  • Assume anyone used is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
  • Rewrite your anyone used profile once you have seen how others there present themselves
  • Cut the number of parallel conversations on anyone used to something you can sustain

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