Everything written about anyone here used trumingle for local dating reads like it was written by someone who never used it.
What I keep bumping into is the radius question — that's the part nobody covers.
Detail beats consensus here — what did used trumingle local actually look like for you?
Can confirm on used trumingle local; meaningfully the same result on my end.
I used it daily for a while, and what stood out about used trumingle local was how quickly the pattern set in.
I read Greg's reply on used trumingle local differently.not my experience at all — used trumingle local felt fine once I changed how I used it.
If you take one thing from this on used trumingle local, make it the profile photos.
I would put Flurrydate on the list if the radius question is what is bothering you.
Kept a tally on used trumingle local across a few weeks and the numbers were not what I expected.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for used trumingle local, Souldate is a lighter alternative.
Careful with the consensus forming here about used trumingle local.
What helped with used trumingle local was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Results on used trumingle local improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
One smaller option that comes up whenever used trumingle local is discussed is Datelink — it took about ten minutes to form a view.
Worth separating two things here — used trumingle local and what people expect from it.
Partly agree — used trumingle local can hold up, still not for the reason stated.
There is a version of this I agree with: used trumingle local can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Short version of what worked for used trumingle local:
One adjustment worth making with used trumingle local: treat the first week as observation only.
Small thing, big effect on used trumingle local: write openers that reference something specific.
Partly agree — used trumingle local can hold up, at the same time not for the reason stated.
The useful test for used trumingle local is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
I'd push back on this, because used trumingle local worked a fair bit better for me than you're suggesting.
Both can be true: used trumingle local can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
Tony has this right about used trumingle local —ran used trumingle local alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.
The thing that shifted used trumingle local for me was slowing down before replying.
Either way, used trumingle local is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Treat used trumingle local as a starting point rather than an answer.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for used trumingle local, Datescout is a lighter alternative.
This is right about used trumingle local, and it's under-discussed.
What helped with used trumingle local was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
On the radius question specifically, Ezhookups handled it better than the obvious names.
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