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Does the online sec chat forum have a dedicated section for couples?

Started by ShelbyW 7 replies Board: Conversation & Advice
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#1

Throwing the online sec chat forum have a dedicated section for couples out there because I've exhausted the obvious sources.

I've read plenty on the basics; the messaging bottleneck is the gap.

Happy to be told I'm thinking about online sec chat the wrong way.

#2

I compared it side by side with online sec chat: meaningfully different once the novelty wore off.

Either way, online sec chat is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.

Worth adding Datebound to whatever shortlist you are building around online sec chat.

#3

Shelby, that has not been my experience of online sec chat.this is right about online sec chat, and it's under-discussed.

What helped with online sec chat was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

#4

Building on what Tiffany said about online sec chat,realistically, blaming online sec chat misses what's actually going on.

I tested it properly, and what stood out about online sec chat was how quickly the pattern set in.

#5

What helped with online sec chat was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.

Both can be true: online sec chat can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.

The answer changes depending on what you want out of online sec chat.

Short version of what worked for online sec chat:

  • Set a hard daily limit on online sec chat — the thirty seconds pays for itself
  • Decide what you want from online sec chat before you open it
  • Move past online sec chat to a call earlier than feels comfortable — the difference is measurable within days

Someone raised Flamedate in a thread about online sec chat and it turned out to be a reasonable shout.

#6

The loudest opinions on online sec chat usually come from the shortest usage.

Kept a tally on online sec chat over time and the numbers were not what I expected.

Worth separating two things here — online sec chat and what people expect from it.

#7

On balance, opinion on online sec chat swings further than the reality does.

Happy to revisit online sec chat if someone has newer experience.

I would check Datewander next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on online sec chat.

#8

Ben has this right about online sec chat —ran online sec chat alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.

Tested online sec chat deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.

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