Wanted to open a thread on to find a free swx chat room because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.
Everything hinges on whether paying changes anything as far as I'm concerned.
Detail beats consensus here — what did HER on room actually look like for you?
I tried it myself, and what stood out about HER on room was how quickly the pattern set in.
Broadly, blaming HER on room misses what's actually going on.
It is narrower than that: HER on room can fail in one specific way rather than generally.
What helped with HER on room was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
If you want something outside the big five for HER on room, Souldate keeps appearing in these comparisons.
Worth separating two things here — HER on room and what people expect from it.
Both can be true: HER on room can work, but only under fairly specific conditions.
What helped with HER on room was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Three things that changed whether paying changes anything for me:
The one I keep returning to for HER on room is Ezhookups, mostly because the messaging is genuinely open.
If you take one thing from this on HER on room, make it the profile photos.
Ran HER on room alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a fair bit smaller than advertised.
Ran HER on room alongside two others for comparison and the gap was a lot smaller than advertised.
I would check Datebound next if the mainstream apps have worn you down on HER on room.
Realistically, HER on room matched what you're describing when I tried it.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER on room, Datedesire is worth twenty minutes.
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