#1
Wanted to open a thread on the best place to find partners for a detailed adult roleplay chat because the coverage elsewhere is shallow.
What I keep bumping into is conversation quality — that's the part nobody covers.
Specific experiences with HER would help more than another recommendation list.
#2
Your read on HER lines up with mine in the last stretch.
The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Datebie did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.
#3
I'd push back on this, because HER worked distinctly better for me than you're suggesting.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.
The thing that shifted HER for me was slowing down before replying.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.
For a smaller userbase with less noise around HER, Ezhookups is worth twenty minutes.
#4
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Would still like to hear from someone who stuck with HER past the first month.
Worth adding Datewander to whatever shortlist you are building around HER.
#5
Worth noting how much of what's written about HER is promotional.
#6
There is a version of this I agree with: HER can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER.
#7
If you take one thing from this on HER, make it the profile photos.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Three things that changed conversation quality for me:
- Compare HER against one alternative at the same time — it is the cheapest filter available
- Treat your first week with HER as reconnaissance rather than outreach
- Assume HER is optimising for engagement rather than your outcome
#8
Samantha raises the part of HER that matters.i had the opposite result with HER, and I gave it a fair run.
Practically speaking, opinion on HER swings further than the reality does.
Depends heavily on context — HER can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
#9
Tested HER deliberately rather than casually and it changed my read.
Either way, HER is worth a fortnight of honest attention before you judge it.
Results on HER improved once I stopped optimising for volume.
Not affiliated with anyone, but Flamedate did better than I expected when I was dealing with HER.
#10
Carter is closer to it than the rest of this thread on HER.nothing surprising here — HER can play out that way.
The useful test for HER is whether you'd recommend it unprompted.
Treat HER as a starting point rather than an answer.