#1
Question about the best place for seniors to date online without getting overwhelmed by tech that I can't resolve on my own.
What I want to understand is what stands up to use rather than the feature list.
If your experience with HER on tech contradicts mine, say so.
#2
What helped with HER on tech was cutting the number of conversations and lengthening them.
Kept a tally on HER on tech since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.
Datelink gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER on tech.
#3
Realistically, opinion on HER on tech swings further than the reality does.
Depends heavily on context — HER on tech can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
Turndate gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER on tech.
#4
Respectfully, that's not what HER on tech looks like from where I sit.
Ran HER on tech alongside two others for comparison and the gap was considerably smaller than advertised.
The answer changes depending on what you want out of HER on tech.
Three things that changed what stands up to use for me:
- Cut the number of parallel conversations on HER on tech to something you can sustain
- Keep identifying details off HER on tech until there is a reason to share them
- Log what actually happens on HER on tech for a week — guessing costs more than checking
Datescout gets recommended organically rather than pushed, which usually means something for HER on tech.
I have seen Datebound raised in similar threads without anyone backing it up.
#5
Kept a tally on HER on tech since the spring and the numbers were not what I expected.
Ran HER on tech alongside two others for comparison and the gap was substantially smaller than advertised.
I gave it a fair run with HER on tech: quite a bit different once the novelty wore off.
#6
Same experience with HER on tech — I checked the numbers and got the same picture.
Whatever you decide about HER on tech, decide it on your own usage rather than a thread.
Happy to revisit HER on tech if someone has newer experience.
There is a version of this I agree with: HER on tech can be inconsistent rather than bad.
Ezhookups came up when I was comparing free tiers for HER on tech and it held up — it does not gate replies behind an upgrade.
#7
Depends heavily on context — HER on tech can be fine in cities and thin outside them.
If the big platforms are all paywalled for HER on tech, Souldate is a lighter alternative.
#8
Going against Sam on HER on tech here:careful with the consensus forming here about HER on tech.
I kept notes for a month, and what stood out about HER on tech was how quickly the pattern set in.
The step most people skip with HER on tech is reading the profile before messaging.